Lasting vs Paired: which couples app fits you?

Lasting and Paired are both popular, well-reviewed couples apps, and they suit different people. Tap what sounds like you and the picker shows which fits best. We also include a third option, UnFight, which our studio makes, so you can see it next to both.

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Lasting vs Paired vs UnFight at a glance

	Lasting	Paired	UnFight
Core idea	Guided relationship sessions, Premium for two users	Daily questions and quizzes for couples, about 5 minutes a day	In-the-moment tools: Calm Down, break timer, Say It Right
Account, ads, privacy	See its listing	See its listing	On your iPhone, no account, optional Face ID lock
Price to start	Free download, Premium subscription	Free download, optional Premium	Free core tools, optional premium
App Store ratings	4.7 from about 25,000 ratings	4.7 from about 211,000 ratings	Newer, fewer ratings so far

Facts from each app's App Store listing, November 2026. UnFight is made by Honest Little Apps, the studio behind this page.

Who each one is for

Choose Lasting if…You both want a structured program, and it's an established, well-reviewed app.

Choose Paired if…You want a light daily habit to stay close, and it's a hugely popular couples app.

Or try UnFight if…You need help when things heat up, and you want it private and on hand.

Want more detail? See Lasting compared in depth, or browse all honest comparisons.

UnFight: Couples & Marriage

UnFight: Couples & Marriage helps when an argument heats up: Calm Down, a break timer, and Say It Right to find better words. Private on your iPhone, with no account and an optional Face ID lock.

Free on the App Store

Questions

Which is better, Lasting or Paired?

Lasting offers structured marriage-health courses. Paired offers daily questions and quizzes to stay connected. Many couples choose by whether they want a course or a daily habit.

Is UnFight free?

UnFight is free to download. Price to start: Free core tools, optional premium.

Where did these comparison facts come from?

From each app's App Store listing in November 2026. Features and prices change, so check the listing before you decide.

Updated November 12, 2026.

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